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	<title>You don&#039;t need another blog... but I do.</title>
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		<title>The blog is dead. Long live the blog.</title>
		<link>http://not-another-blog.com/2011/07/13/the-blog-is-dead-long-live-the-blog/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2011 00:04:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, it&#8217;s been more than a year.  I have excuses.  They&#8217;re boring.  They don&#8217;t matter. Why did I stop writing?  When it comes down to it, there was a time when I wanted to write and then for a while I didn&#8217;t. Right now I&#8217;d like to try again.  This should be fun.  Thanks for [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=68&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Back with a whimper</title>
		<link>http://not-another-blog.com/2011/07/13/back-with-a-whimper/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2011 00:03:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>elkamino6</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been seven years today. For the first time since he was killed my family isn&#8217;t together and I thought it&#8217;d be fine.  And it is.  But it&#8217;s harder than I expected. Today, as usual, distraction was my drug of choice. With a clinic remodel and meetings to run I was sufficiently busy at work [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=89&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>lowlights</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 05:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve had this one in the can for a while but haven&#8217;t posted anything for  some time because life has been full since I last did: a new baby boy, a two-year old little girl realizing that the little boy was sticking around, diapers,  work, and more diapers.  And this post is ugly.  It doesn&#8217;t [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=63&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Seeing is believing.</title>
		<link>http://not-another-blog.com/2010/01/10/seeing-is-believing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 01:14:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I haven&#8217;t written in months.  From an emotional and prosaic standpoint, I feel paralyzed. This is not a shock to most who know me but, I like to plan.  Everything.  And right now I have no plan.  However, in an attempt to move forward I will post again, fearing that my words will fight against [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=51&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Get lost.</title>
		<link>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/09/22/get-lost/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 05:42:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>elkamino6</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We got lost a while back. Ana and I woke up early and packed up the hundred or so toys we cart around each and every road trip even though our daughter prefers to play with one faded pink and very tattered stuffed pony.  With Mia strapped into her cracker encrusted car seat we headed [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=34&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Is this awkward for you?</title>
		<link>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/08/18/is-this-awkward-for-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 06:23:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There’s a point in every friendship, working relationship or passing acquaintance I’ve developed post 7/13/04 that I always come to.  Somebody will say something along the lines of, “So where do your folks live?”  (According to this example I must only have conversations with people over the age of 65 because I just used the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=27&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;Don&#8217;t take the 60, it&#8217;s terrible this time of day,&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/08/02/dont-take-the-60-its-terrible-this-time-of-day/</link>
		<comments>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/08/02/dont-take-the-60-its-terrible-this-time-of-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2009 07:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>elkamino6</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I said as the chaplain sped through downtown Pomona, clearly ignoring the advice I was offering. &#8220;I used to be stationed out here,&#8221; he fired back while simultaneously putting his blinker on to do just that.  I imagined he was still wondering why the 24 year old who needed a hair cut was studying to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=15&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Mr. Guizado had a big red nose.</title>
		<link>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/07/19/mr-guizado-had-a-big-red-nose/</link>
		<comments>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/07/19/mr-guizado-had-a-big-red-nose/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 18:14:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>elkamino6</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[And he hunched over when he sat.  A lone, greasy hair stood straight up near the front of his shining scalp, like a life raft that had been cut from the receding cruise ship of hair that still clung desperately to his temples and neck.  He had a hearing aid too, a small detail that [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=12&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Mark your calendars: July 13 is National Depression Day</title>
		<link>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/07/15/mark-your-calendars-july-13-is-national-depression-day/</link>
		<comments>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/07/15/mark-your-calendars-july-13-is-national-depression-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 06:49:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>elkamino6</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday came and went. I expect the 13th of July to come crashing in like a tornado but instead it usually slips by like the waves in a lazy summer swell.  Should yesterday have been more devastating for me?  Is a five year anniversary significant when you don&#8217;t celebrate a damn thing and only remember [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=10&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>two is the new one</title>
		<link>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/06/07/two-is-the-new-one/</link>
		<comments>http://not-another-blog.com/2009/06/07/two-is-the-new-one/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 08:11:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>elkamino6</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The first time we found out there was a true sense of anticipation and doubt.  We wondered if it was even possible.  This time we pretty much knew before she peed on the stick.  The first time we were in Paris and a romantic fog hung over a turn of the century cobblestone street.  The [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=not-another-blog.com&amp;blog=7866111&amp;post=6&amp;subd=upinmyownhead&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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